Credit Cards Change Americans into Indentured Servants

Posted on August 7, 2016 By

when-jobs-feels-like-prisonMany people, especially young people dream about their splendid career and they spend time taking multiple career assessments, checking their chances of becoming a millionaire but they don’t think about their debt, especially unsecured debt like credit cards. And this kind of debt is stealing America’s freedom one interest charge, one late fee, one over-the-limit fee, and one annual fee at a time.

Credit Cards Change Americans into Indentured Servants. And as US history shows, the indentured servitude system could lead to outright slavery.

It would seem I am not the only one who has had this thought, as I just came across an article called “Debt-The New American Slavery.”  I don’t know much about the author Michael Mihalik but it sounds to me like he is barking up the right tree. (more…)


Working Better Under Pressure? You Bet!

Posted on July 21, 2016 By

I work well under pressure. In fact, I always seem to do better on tests, projects, or anything when I have a hardcore cram session, trying to put in as much information in my small brain, or put forth tons of effort toward something physical.

Why is this? I don’t know, it’s just one of the many, yet interesting things about me.

Anyway, along with that project, I had a test today which I could not study for since I didn’t bring my book home over my four day weekend, nor did I even know we were going to have a test. Just when I thought things couldn’t get any worse, the test came.

I’d taken the test and was unsure of how I did. Since I have an IB teacher, she makes her test all short answer, fill in the blank, or true or false. She doesn’t believe in multiple choice so that makes her tests that much harder. (more…)


What does it mean to feel loved, be loved?

Posted on May 30, 2016 By

This is probably the most personal post I could come up with, but it is also the most relevant.  So here it goes, what is love really? What does it mean to feel loved, be loved?

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Recently I sat down at my regular writing routine and sadden by the discovery that I have yet to fully understand what it is love.  And before anyone jumps to any conclusion, no this wasn’t coming up because of relationship, friendships, or family conflicts. Ironically, this topic came up while on the journey to fully understand and seek out a deeper relationship with a higher power.

You see I do believe that God, Buddah, Allah, The Universe, The All Powerful and Knowing Spirit, whatever you want to call this thing that is bigger and greater than I am, does love ALL people unconditionally. But I couldn’t come up with how that love would feel or look like, and began making excuses as why that love wouldn’t really happen to me. (more…)


Responsible for My Own Happiness

Posted on March 30, 2016 By

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Have I ever told you the story of how I use to be a people pleaser? Yes I did? Okay great, so we can skip that part of the story. But incase you have no clue what a people pleaser is here is my personal definition:

A People Pleaser: A person who is willing to sacrifice their own happiness for others’ enjoyment. 



Cool/Not Cool

Posted on March 19, 2016 By

Cool: The kids slept in until shortly after 8 this morning.

Not Cool: There was a big mess waiting for me in Oliver’s room.

Cool: One of my closest friends came for a visit yesterday and spent the night.

Not Cool: She brought this cheddar flavored popcorn with her that, once popped, made the whole house smell like gym socks.

Cool: I played Dave’s newest addiction for the first time last night and discovered that I am not good at it.

Not Cool: It’s like crack, man. All I can think about is when I’ll be able to rock out again.

Really Not Cool: We discovered the reason behind Julia’s mystery fever: She’s got a throat infection. Again. We were supposed to pack up and take a trip north to my aunt and uncle’s house for more Christmas festivities this weekend, but with Julia sick that’s looking doubtful.



Sunday Night Debates

Posted on January 30, 2016 By

Every Sunday night I’m a total schizo. Part of me feels sad that I wont be spending the day with the kids tomorrow and the other part is looking forward to going to the office and doing the professional person thing. Depending on the Sunday, one part or the other may dominate but it’s never fully one way or the other.



Trouble with Spending Quality Time with Your Kids

Posted on December 30, 2015 By

“Read the book!” “Read the BOOK!” My son keeps asking me in his very loud outside voice. As he’s asking me, he’s also poking me with the book.

After having spent most of the day running errands, picking up after the kids, making multiple meals and squeezing in some work, I should be ready to spend some quality time with my son.

But I’m not. I’m just tired. “Not now, sweetie,” I say softly with a hint of frustration, “maybe later.” My eyelids feel heavy and all I want to do is just lie down on my bed.



Cheap Finds In Santa Monica

Posted on October 25, 2015 By

Who knew you can get by on so little in the beautiful beach city of Santa Monica?

Apparently there are more broke college (or post college) students here than I had imagine. Or I am just insanely good at finding really great deals. Either way, here is what I have learned.

Note: This article turned into more of a satire than anything else, but bare with me, you may still get something out of it.



Making Room For More

Posted on October 15, 2015 By

It is that time of year again- the seasons are changing and the fall wardrobe is about to come out from storage. Here is my biggest issue, I hold on to things that are dirty, tired, rundown, and have seen better days.

That is right, I hold on to items that simple do not make me feel good anymore. The same way I insist on riding my old car that is economical anymore. My polish friend calculated for the fuel usage and I know for sure, my car is too expensive to drive around. (Sign)

The same with cloths. If you are anything like I am, tossing out clothes, accessories and purses is a really difficult task. There are memories attached to those skin jeans that haven’t fit it five years. Those stained shirts can be covered by a sweater, right?

I cling to my existing wardrobe like I will never buy a new pair of shoes again. I simply cannot do that anymore. The challenge is on! I am in pursuit in making room for more things to come. Let’s be honest, I don’t even have the closet space to keep all the clothes that I have now. So here is what I am doing: I am emptying out my closet only keep clothes that make me feel good. A great rule of thumb that I hear recently is, if you wouldn’t buy it in a store, then toss it out.



Love & Toast: My Favorite Paraben Free Products

Posted on September 9, 2015 By

Paraben free products have become a huge interest of mine, and should be one of yours as well. After learning the statistics and facts about nasty preservatives (such parabens) that are found in make-up, hair care, and other everyday products, I have devoted time and energy in finding the best natural products on the market. One of my all time favorite paraben free brands is Love & Toast. The skin care and fragrance line by Margot Elena is such a luxury product at a drugstore price. All of Margot Elena exclude pararbens, sulfates, mineral oil (BAD BAD BAD for you), and synthetic coloring.